THE CHECKLIST


As a woman who strives to be perfect I tend to check things in my mental checklist. I do it subconsciously all the time while shopping, when my friends talk to me, with my siblings I keep checking trying to come up with a reason why this is what it is.

Before I bore myself and anyone who reads this piece let me go to the particular checklist most of us have. The relationship checklist. Every practical woman above 20 should have one. Lets be honest, the men have a checklist why not us?

In recent times, who I’m I kidding for the past three years I have been doing the relationship cleanse. I used to be a relationship junkie in the sense that if a man met 30% of the checklist I would dive in and believe romance would balance it out.

Seven checklists down the road now I think I have found the perfect checklist and this is what I use now to screen potential suitors. I know there are people who judge my thinking process, my writing and my style but I can’t help but be myself so here is my checklist ladies ENJOY AND MEN BEWARE:

 

 

 

SERIAL NUMBER

PERSONALITY CRITERIA

YES

NO

MAYBE

TOTAL

1.

ATTRACTIVE

 

 

 

 

2.

ELOQUENT

 

 

 

 

3.

LOVES GOD

 

 

 

 

4.

HONEST

 

 

 

 

5.

HAS A PLAN FOR THE FUTURE AND IS WORKING TOWARDS IT.

 

 

 

 

6.

WITTY & FUNNY

 

 

 

 

7.

PRACTICAL

 

 

 

 

 

 

8.

EASY GOING

 

 

 

 

 

9.

WELL GROOMED (A GENTLEMAN)

 

 

 

 

10.

FAMILY ORIENTED

 

 

 

 

 

The rest is up to the higher powers, God. I have realized some people are close to perfect but they are not perfect for you, so if a guy passes the checklist then my heart should confirm him. I wish I could say that I have stuck to the list every time or I would but its just my way of knowing there’s a way to filter the crazies.

The romantic jumps in the practical’s ones check the list before they love. What kind of person are you? A checklist person or anti-checklist? Holla and let me know. 

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